Happy New Year! I wanted to start the new year off right with an amazing documentary a dear friend introduced me to. It’s called HUMAN. Check it out on Youtube. It will touch, move and inspire you. The YouTube version has 3 parts and the one I am referencing on this blog post is the 1st part. Enjoy!
Here’s a really interesting article regarding the mindset of being poor. It covers how traditionally, we are expected to live up to the status quo of going to school, getting a degree and then finding a career where you can work until you retire. This article that cites a book entitled “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind” by T. Harv Eker where it refers to people who follow the traditional paths of society and live a mediocre life and that poor, aren’t necessarily people with no money living on the streets, but people who possess the poor mindset. Read the article here.
This holiday has been really great, spending time with family and friends. Last night at Thanksgiving dinner we all went around the table and shared what we were thankful for. It was really moving and some people got emotional. One of the things I said I was thankful for was the privilege of being able to sit and have a nice dinner with friends and family. Most people don’t really get to do that. If you have your health, a warm home, food to eat and clothes on your back consider yourself lucky. You are in the top percentage of people who gets to live a blessed live. There are millions of people who would trade us for our first world problems.
A co-worker of mine said she hardly ever goes on Facebook anymore. She said she just got sick and tired of seeing baby photos of her friends with their babies. I thought it was pretty funny. She said that they all look so happy and perfect but I don’t know if that’s real – it all looks so posed. I got to thinking about all the times I’ve staged a Facebook photo to make it look good. It makes me think of a photo shoot, or my friend who stages homes for sale to make them look more appealing to the buyers in an open house. I thought about all the selfies I took with my kissy lips imitating someone I saw on MTV.
It’s funny how media influences us and gets under our skin. Makes me wonder, are we imitating life based on what we see in the media or are we living life? I always see millennials glued to their phones on public transportation, even when they’re walking down the street in front of traffic (there’s actually street signs prohibiting this now in Europe and other places in the world). It really makes you think how voyeuristic Facebook is. You can look into someone’s life without them even knowing about it. I’ve creeped on Facebook before, it’s fun and a major source of time suckage. When you look at it, it’s kind of like your public persona. It’s what you want people to see about your life. But what about the things you don’t want exposed? Those are pretty important too, right? So the question is – are you spending more time on your fake cyber life or your real life?
We vote every day with the choices we make. The only way we are going to change this country is to take responsibility for our lives and actions. Nothing is outside of you, you don’t have to wait and rely on someone in the White House to make your life better or make this a better world. Be careful what the media feeds you, although some people can admit this election has been entertaining to watch.
Here’s an interesting video my friend sent me. It’s a different take on the election.
At the end of the day, consciousness is what’s going to change this world and make it a better place, not some person sitting in the White House. Choose yourself.